Tuesday, September 25, 2012

Indahnya KEKASIH...




Do you know how patient Prophet Mohammad (sallAllahu alaihi wa sallam) used to be with his wives?! When Ayshah (radhyaAllahu ‘anha) used to get angry, he (sall’Allahu alaihi wa sallam) put his hand on her shoulder and made this Duaa :"O Allah forgive her sins, remove the anger from her heart, and save her from fitan (temptations) "

Do you know how romantic he (sallAllahu alaihi wa sallam) used to be with her?! He (sallaAllahu alaihi wa sallam) used to wait for Aysha to drink, then take the container from which she drank and drink from the same spot where she had put her lips!

Do you know how gentle the best of mankind used to be with his wives? He (sallAllahu alaihi wa sallam) used to let Ayshah (radhya Allahu ‘anha) put her feet on his honorable knees to ride the camel!
He (sallAllahu alaihi wa sallam) even used to call A'isha (radi Allahu anha): 'Ayesh' as a nickname!

Now I wonder why some Muslimat think it is hard to find a romantic yet a righteous husband?! When someone takes a role model in his life, he would be impressed by them and imitate them, isn't? For example in our time, it’s so normal unfortunately to see some young Muslim men taking actors and singers as their role model and becoming so impressed and influenced with them, so they imitate them in the way they are wearing their clothes, the way they are doing their hear, the way they sing, they speak, they walk, etc … So why it is strange to find a righteous Muslim man who is so impressed by the best of mankind and take him (sallAllahu alaihi wa sallam) as his role model in treating his wife and being romantic with her?
So dear sister, pray to Allah that you find a righteous husband who follow the Sunnah of our beloved Prophet (sallAllahu alaihi wa sallam) not just his sunnah in ‘Ibadah (acts of worship) but also his Sunnah in romance.




Sunday, September 9, 2012

Semuga Kasih kita di bawa ke Syurga

Menyayat Hati - Isteri Memandikan Jenazah Suami Yang Tersayang Di Halang Kemudian....

Seorang isteri menangis-nangis ingin mandikan jenazah suami dia.. Bapak mertua dgn polis forensik tak bagi. Sambil menangis isteri berkata ini janji kami suami isteri. Jika abang mati dulu kamu (isteri) mandikanlah jenazah abang, Andai kamu (isteri) mati dulu dari abang, abang akan mandikan jenazah kamu.....

Dari luar bilik mayat hospital seorang ustaz masuk tanye ape hal then ustaz tu kate x pe kalau isteri nak mandikan jenazah suami.. ustaz tadi bersama beberapa org lagi temankan si isteri mandikan jenazah suaminya..

Dengan tenang isteri membasuh muka suaminya sambil berdoa, "Inilah wajah suami yang ku sayang tetapi Allah lebih sayangkan abang.. Moga Allah ampunkan dosa abang dan satukan kite di akhirat nanti.."

Membasuh tangan jenazah suami sambil berkata "Tangan inilah yang mencari rezeki yang halal untuk kami, masuk ke mulut kami. moga Allah beri pahala untuk mu suami ku.."

Membasuh tubuh jenazah suami smbil berkata "tubuh inilah yg memberi pelukan kasih syg pd ku dan ank2,moga Allah beri pahala berganda untukmu wahai suamiku"

Membasuh kaki jenazah suami smbil berkata "dgn kaki ini abang kluar mencari rezki utk kami, berjalan dan berdiri sepanjang hari semata2 untuk mencari sesuap nasi,terima kasih abang...moga Allah beri kau kenikmatan hidup d akhirat dan pahala yg berlipat kali gandanya"

Selesai memandikan jenazah suaminya, si isteri mengucup sayu suaminya dan berkata "terima kasih abang kerana aku bahagia sepanjang menjadi isterimu dan terlalu bahagia dan terima kasih kerna meninggalkan aku bersama permata hatimu yg persis dirimu dan aku. Sebagai seorang isteri, aku redha akan pemergianmu kerana kasih sayang Allah pada mu."